In life we can be faced with events that shake us to our core and feel so devastating to our soul. Heartbreak, loss and grief can be such an overwhelming force, it can feel as though we are being consumed. It is during these hugely challenging moments in our lives that it can be hard to … Continue reading Valley Walking: Walking Through Fire
Oh the promises we will make to keep the one we love. Relationships end for all sorts of reasons. Many end mutually, some just run their course and there is a shared understanding that a parting of ways is inevitable. But what about when the desire to end the relationship is completely one-sided? What happens … Continue reading Reality Check: The Dangers of Desperation
Loneliness seems to come hand in hand with divorce. We became so used to the sounds our home makes when we are busy being married, that the sudden stark silence of being alone can be deafening. Some people may go out of their way to avoid the loneliness. They pack their weekly diary with work … Continue reading Valley Walking: The Deafening Silence
During divorce, there can be so many moments that shock, enrage and hurt you. Learning of your partner's unfaithfulness can unleash a primal need for revenge. Hearing your spouse rewrite your life together can ignite a raw sense of injustice. Having your husband or wife walk away from you and leave the life you have … Continue reading Reality Check: Your Future Self Thanks You!
If your husband or wife has left you for another person, you will understandably be going through a whirlwind of emotions. The betrayal and rejection can weigh so heavy on the soul and lead to feelings of anger, confusion, shock, guilt and inadequacy. It can cause you to inspect yourself and your relationship through a … Continue reading Reality Check: Mermaids and Mermen
Why is it that some people truly believe the grass is greener on the other side of the fence? In today's world there can be quite a disposable outlook on life. We upgrade our mobiles, our TVs, our cars but what about when we start believing we can upgrade our lives or our husbands and … Continue reading Reality Check: The Grass isn’t Always Greener
To say I had pleaded with God to intervene and save my marriage would be a huge understatement. I begged in utter desperation for Him to transform the awful situation I was in. I fasted, as did my whole family. I spent days in prayerful meditation and had a host of church and family members … Continue reading Valley Walking: When the Mountain Doesn’t Move
Devoted and Divorced 